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Still little help available for next of kin of substance users

“It can be questioned whether the health and social services have made room for the next of kin of addicts,” says a researcher on substance abuse. 

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The partner of the substance user often has to take on both adult roles, and children may take on roles or caregiving tasks that are not natural at their age. (Image: iStock)

“My research shows that there is a great need for more support for family members of drug addicts,” says Bente Birkeland. 

She is an associate professor at the University of Agder and researcher in the field of substance abuse. She also heads the national expertise network BarnsBeste (best interests of the child). 

Birkeland has written her doctoral thesis on partners of substance users. In collaboration with Professor Bente Weimand (Akershus University Hospital/University of South-Eastern Norway) she wrote a report on the living conditions of next of kin of addicts, commissioned by the Norwegian Directorate of Health. She also contributed to the multi-centre study on children as next of kin in 2015. 

The question of whether the next of kin of substance users receive the help they need from the health services is still relevant.

“My research is about being a partner and having children with someone who uses drugs. I do research in the field of drug addiction with the hope to help families get better,” Birkeland says. 

The government's strategy for next of kin for 2020-2025 acknowledges that many of them find themselves in very challenging situations, and that they are calling for a greater degree of empathy and respect in their interactions with public services. 

"I do research in the field of drug addiction with the hope to help families get better,” says researcher Bente Birkeland (Photo: UiA). 

A challenging life 

Birkeland's research shows, among other things, that many family members of substance users feel stigmatised. Children and adults experience a high degree of conflict and secrecy about the substance abuse problem. 

The partner of the substance user often has to take on both adult roles, and children may take on roles or caregiving tasks that are not natural at their age. 

The problems caused by substance abuse permeate the entire life of the family. 

Experiencing burnout 

The next of kin are often exhausted from exerting so much of their energy on the drug problem, but often do not receive help from public bodies. Some feel strong, but are still not offered any follow-up for themselves if their partner is in treatment. 

Seeking help can also feel shameful.

“Being on constant alert causes many people to experience anxiety problems,” says Birkeland. 

The stress over time can lead to some of them taking sick leave or even becoming unable to work. 

It is painful for both children and adults to see a loved one struggling due to drug problems, and to feel powerless themselves. They also feel that other people are not in a position to understand their situation. 

Lack of rights and knowledge 

According to the researcher, the next of kin feel that they fall between two categories in the substance abuse services. The services are tailored for the person with the abuse problem, but the next of kin have no rights.

“This is especially true in specialised health services. The family can only be involved if the person in treatment gives permission,” says Birkeland. 

The patient's rights are what matter, and the patient can consent to involving their next of kin. Healthcare professionals, on the other hand, have an independent legal obligation to involve and support family members. Still, they rarely feel they are being met. 

Need to focus on the children 

Birkeland points out that it is important to have good systems in the healthcare system to focus on the children affected.

“Family members of substance users say that knowledge about addiction and focus on the next of kin must be embedded in all levels of the organisation for it to work well,” she says. 

Ensuring that children have someone to talk to does not have to be costly.

“It can be a matter of training staff,” the researcher says. 

In hospitals, all units within specialised health services are required to have personnel responsible for children.

A better life

“Asking the questions ‘how are you doing?’, and ‘what support do you need?’ is a good start to getting help on the right course,” says Birkeland. 

Birkeland's research shows that it is helpful to have someone to talk to and connecting with others facing similar situations. Several volunteer organisations for family members of individuals with substance abuse issues have good offers, but people often do not know about them.

“The problems can be identified, and the family can receive help earlier if employees in health and social services have knowledge about substance abuse issues and are aware of the offers,” says Birkeland. 

Need for training 

Currently, it can be random whether the next of kin are informed about support offers and available options. The knowledge about substance abuse problems within different health services may be insufficient, especially when it comes to substance abuse problems from a family perspective.

“Individuals who have positive experiences with the support system say that the knowledge held by therapists and professionals can be crucial,” says Birkeland. 

Birkeland's research shows that effectively supporting the next of kin of substance abusers requires the establishment of clearer procedures for their involvement, as well as systematic knowledge within health and social services. 

There is a need for training on substance abuse problems and how they affect the whole family, as well as collaboration between different service levels and cooperation between public and voluntary services. 


  • Bente Birkeland and Bente Weimand: En kvalitativ undersøkelse av levekår hos voksne pårørende til personer med rusmiddelproblemer, Norwegian Directorate of Health, 2015 
  • Ruud, T., Birkeland, B., Faugli, A., Hagen, K. A., Hellman, A., Hilsen, M., & Weimand, B. M.: Barn som pårørende. Resultater fra en multisenterstudie. Lørenskog: Akershus University Hospital HF, 2015 
  • Bente Birkeland: ‘Life situation when your partner has substance use problems: Quality of life and everyday experiences,’ doctoral thesis at the University of Agder, 2019